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Obsessions serve a purpose aside from face value, ...

2009-11-12T08:32:22.643-05:00

Obsessions serve a purpose aside from face value, they occupy time when too much time is unsettling. Work from home India

i had a vbac after a c section. my firstborn was c...

2009-10-10T16:33:52.539-04:00

i had a vbac after a c section. my firstborn was c section after many hours of pushing a much too big head out of me, when he was 1 year old i was pregnent, and so my daughter was born (20 months between births. my daughter had a small head (large brain) and with the help of a few outside hands helping me push down she was born vaginally. My children are now aged 22, and 20, and i marvel at many things about them, one of them being that they came out of me!

Such an impossibly difficult decision. Trust your ...

2009-10-10T15:59:38.311-04:00

Such an impossibly difficult decision. Trust your gut, your instincts. And choose the person who you trust most, too. Try not to focus on perfection--that's putting a lot of pressure on yourself.

What if perfect does not exist? What would be sec...

2009-10-09T12:58:05.737-04:00

What if perfect does not exist? What would be second best? What is your priority? Who do you feel is most likely ready, willing and able to get you as close to perfect as possible?
Obsessions serve a purpose aside from face value, they occupy time when too much time is unsettling.

thanks for your comment today. ;-D i could write ...

2009-10-08T15:23:58.155-04:00

thanks for your comment today. ;-D

i could write a book about this, but i'll try to keep my comments brief. i birthed my first at home, water birth and everthing, and loved it. then i birthed my next three at a birth center and also loved it. with my first we were only 2 minutes from one of the best hospitals in the state, and i felt in my gut that all would be well. with the others, i was more than 20 minutes from a good hospital at home and didn't feel comfortable with that. i might be a little nervous as well after having a c-section just because you don't totally know how your body will react. with that said, i think you should go with what makes you happiest, and where you feel the safest... which may just be home. i probably only muddled the water more there, sorry! if you're the praying type, then make your decision, ask if it's right and you'll feel it in your heart and in your mind, peace.

good luck sweetie!